The word “mandala” is from the classical Indian language of Sanskrit. Loosely translated to mean “circle,” but a mandala is far more than a simple shape.

Drawing a Mandala is a great tool to learn more about why youmay be having difficulties with women and relationships. In my home-study course I will be teaching a particular mandala to find out the areas of your body that are out of balance and holding tension due to negative beliefs and trauma… and a step by step guide of which movement and exercisesto do to eliminate them and free up that area that is holding you back as a confident male.

The psychoanalyst Carl Jung saw the mandala as “a representation of the unconscious self,” and believed his paintings of mandalas enabled him to identify emotional disorders and work towards wholeness in personality. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mandala

What Area Is Making Me Invisible To Women?

Past experiences affect different parts of your body depending on which part of your life they happened in. This is vital in understanding better how to root out behaviors and negative beliefs. These imbalances show up on a physical level and a skilled practitioner will be able to read your body to see which parts of your life you have had difficulty in.

Woman, I believe, can pick up on these issues in your life and will be either attracted to you or reject you based on what she senses. She will not be consciously thinking “wow, his sacral chakra is imbalanced better ignore him!!” No , of course not… but she will simply, subconsciously,pick up on the way you move and hold your pelvis, is it relaxed or tight and stiff and held in a balanced position or held away from people.

This will tell her how
• sexually comfortable you are,
• how at ease you are with the size of your manhood
• and if you feel you are sexual male who can ravish her.

“I have asked hundreds of women”….

Hmmm… seems far fetched?? I have asked hundreds of women to tell me about the body language of the men in the bars where we were… yep you guessed it… they could tell 99% of the time if a man was sexually capable by the way he moved and held himself. Even if he was a sexual male (which I doubt he was) they had already dismissed him and he was no longer on their radar.

“The First Seven Years Is Critical”….

If you had a difficult initial 7 years of you life you can have problems with finance/ security issues and your back and legs. This will show up as pain and injuries but also postural imbalance.

This postural imbalance of the first 7 years is critical because you will be sending out a ‘stress withdrawal’ posture that sends signals to women that you are afraid of life on a very deep level. This will be picked up on by tension in your muscles and connective tissue, fast breathing and walking and chin poking or forward head posture.

If you experienced trauma or difficult times between the ages of 7-14 years, this will show up as imbalances in your 2nd zone or sacral chakra. This zone is to do with rhythm and sensuality/sexuality.

This period of course relates to puberty where you go from a 7 year old
young boy to a hairy hormonally wild teenager.

Difficulties at this time will show up in adult life as tight hips, not being comfortable with sexual issues, worried walking around naked in front of your girlfriend etc..

The Mandala

In drawing your own Mandala, you will become aware of times in your life when you experienced difficult times. For example when I was 7 I left the UK to go and live in Kenya, East Africa. I thought the coming back was the hardest part but when I drew my Mandala, I realized that leaving the UK had been very traumatic for me and I had simply pushed it down inside.

When you have a picture of these times you can use certain exercises that will gently rebalance and release built up tension from that period so that the fear and pain will be released. This tension is read by women as being unattractive as it will appear as rigidity and lack of ease in your own skin.

Here is a modified Chi Qong exercise that will create maximum flow in your hips. This exercise relates to sensuality/sexuality and will help if you had some hard times from the age of seven to fourteen.